How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 04:13

How does one succeed in life?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

That's it for today.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What is something you want to "get off your chest"?

What I need from you?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Ask yourself:

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.